Do you have their synastry you could post on my Forum? I could not agree more with this. Children create their future adult personalities by learning from the adults around them and their interactions, so it makes sense, sadly. Maybe you felt this way sometimes given your Lilith-Eros contacts, but I was certainly the one more outwardly angry when the mess finally hit the fan. Thank you, Lo and Welcome Also, our vertexes are separated only by 7 degrees. The Lilith person might have trouble with issues surrounding desirability. Thanks :), 3) Angles in the houses & aspects. Thank you for your words. Your email address will not be published. I'm really only just starting to get to know Eros well, and Lilith is still somewhat elusive. For that reason, I am not for everyone and know this but I seem to be appreciated by people who think like I do. I found your site a short time ago and learned a lot, very descriptive in the analysis, I love it! That is why it feels so life and death. That`s very interesting information. I am prone to being attacked in this way. Sorry, lol. His sun/jupiter/neptune/venus are on my venus/saturn trouble spot in scorp. PS I checked the synastry of a man I know for sure was abused by his own father physically and emotionally, throughout his childhood, and this mans Nessus is conjunct his fathers Sun. Considering the sexual aspect of it all, though, I'm betting the pay off was satisfying at least, haha. Your articles hit me hard again:-). It is disrespect to Astrology which I love and respect. Asteroids and aspects do not control people. Thank you a bunch for being so sweet Free~ I do agree that Ami is quite insightful, however I would like to chime in and say that I do not make every aspect positive I make every aspect neutral because the stars and planets are not going to tell you something is bad or make something bad. I dont want people to get the wrong idea and then get scared over a small aspect. Again, telling people to get out of or stay out of relationships with an aspect that you in particular think will cause them harm is not healing in any aspect of the word. It is very, very powerful. I hear your concern. thank you again for being so welcoming, Thank you so much, Sovietlana! I hope I can do this in my articles. My Dejanira is in 5 Sag, like his North Node. Who does whom, so to speak? His abuse asteroid on her midheaven would be her reputation and career, right? with Dejanira conjunct his natal Sun Lilith is not dark, per se, Friend. You have such a sweet spirit. I just never have, not that it is not good. And as far as I know theres a strong correlation between nessus and psychopaths/abusers. However, if the time is right, for sure, I would trust the chart over a personal account. I'm so cappy Knowflake . or you consider just the closer orbit? His touch is all at once sexual, creative and spiritual. To learn more about the past life, look at the aspect, the houses in which the planets sit, and the signs. Keep in mind that conjunctions are the most important, but other aspects can occasionally speak to marriage. in case his vertex in my moon and ascendant *. Ive only been studying astrology casually for 5 years, so even though I know the basic interpretation of those planets in contact, Id still love to hear it from a pro love your blog! I was wondering.. Are Sun/Mars (double whammy) and Venus/Mars (double whammy) dark aspects in synastry? Once awakened, no matter how untamed the experience becomes, we are given a rare opportunity to integrate, redeem and restore Eros and Lilith to a place of honor through shared, transcendental sexual activity. Eros: Synastry Aspects . OkI really cant comment on the sign, per se. Thank you for your response, I appreciate it very much. Eros & Psyche in. Thats your opinion. Would appreciate some insight!! Hi Ami. "I want to welcome you to my website. You do not have to do their chart. and should I post the picture of the chart (I usually get it from astro.com)? What conjuncts your Aura? That would be my guess. I ve met a man who have his mars = my moon (1) in taurus and square my uranus (2) in aquarius. 1) What does it mean to have dejanira 13 in conjuction with my ascendant 12? That is why I, affectionately, call them too hot not to cool down. There are certain aspects I see in these dark,nuclear passion relationships. Unlike Juno/Saturn aspects, Juno in aspect with the South Node does not necessarily indicate that marriage in this life will be a force. As a result, this aspect can feel like opening a can of worms that literally fly, not crawl, out of the unconscious. M. % would be more ambient but felt imo Maria dear. We can still find a lot of info with no time of birth. These parts of you would flow well i.e may not play out in actual asbuse but would still be issues you both would deal with i.e abuse/victimhood imo I have not seen the trine in actual charts, dean. Lol just noticed what you wrote at the end about Mars/Uranus, sorry! That mars/nessus of his is also square his moon/pluto. What does this conjunction mean in a synastry? The lilith person knows exactly how they effect the ic and can really play with them over time. Hats off to your courage. Ascendant opposite ascendant (1st house on the 7th house overlay). Isis is extreme devotion to the partner in the bravest, most selfless way possible. His ascendant is at 24 Virgo and has 0 Virgo in his 12th house. If anything, Ive suffered abuse from others at times. I think there are very few people who actually manage to overcome childhood abuse, and not without a long painful journey and negative experiences. What use is reams of esoteric info for real life applications. There is so few information on these aspects so I really appreciate reading more about it here and in the forum. What about Nessus conjunct Dejanira in synastry and there is no abuse whatsoever, what would that mean? You are welcome to your opinion but I stand on what I wrote. Deja conj ASC may make for victimization as you fo through life, I am not able to do more. Lilith cops the craziest projections - that she could cause miscarriages or tried to wreck men's marriages via 'erotic nightmares' and so on. What if a man has Dejanira conjunct a womans Sun? I have my dejanira conjuct by one degree with my AC line. I am not surprised this happened to you. The nessus and deja conjunction is in Cancer. First of all Lilith is for . However, Moon/Pluto in conjunction does not have to turn bad. However, this person would have to play it out before he overcame it. Please please do Nessus conjunct Lilith in synastry?? I have 8 scorpio ascendant and he 4 scorpio jupiter. I do find it funny that I have Dejenira in 5 deg Sag, since most of my arch enemies were Sags. At the end of the day, that is all this god and goddess really ask for.". We are dealing with very primal emotions here and we all know what primal emotions and passions can do if a person is not careful. So the theory doesnt check out. You, as the Pluto in the trine with his Sun and venus could kind of see through him lol, Thank you Amy for your reply We are both passionate, but luckily, by nature, not violent people thank God . This is not to say it would be better or even easier. With asteroids, I would accept a 3 degree conjunction, tops. That might be how theyre playing out their Nessus-Dejanira, though Im not sure since they also have a lot of mutual Uranus and Pluto contacts to inner planets and both Ascendants. Deja conj the DSC may make you look for wounded bird types. Priapus is likewise called a "minor rustic God" or even "an oversexed gardening God." You interpret things based off of your own view. For more context, Nessus/BML dont aspect anything else except a grand trine with Mercury/MC and Jupiter. Lets hope more info comes out about this connection.:). His natal mars, lilith, pluto conjunction is conjunct my ic and I've distanced myself from him knowing that he has wayyyy too much power over me, but every time I see him I can barely stand and immediately start shaking I am glad my post was helpful! I admire your wisdom. Set his time to 12 midnight but TELL me, so I know before I look! , Not a sag actually, but a virgo with tons of leo in her chart, lol. This aspect can bring intense emotions, profound personal growth, and the potential for both positive and negative experiences. Further, there is such a thing such as free will. Also my true node is at 22 Cancer close to my nessus (conjunction?) Synastry When a person's natal moon forms a conjunction with someone's Eros, or vice versa, this can be a very sexualbut very intenserelationship. I will come back and answer when I have time to really look at the details. Drawing that authoritarian feminine energy into the already present power themes must have been really overwhelming, just flooding in from every corner. Romantic Conjunctions in the 12th House If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. I think Chiron is extremely important in any synastry chart because it speaks to the deepest wounds created between two people. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. 1. The Sun person naturally understands who the Moon person is and vice versa. She is deeply alluring and irresistible. crap. To be honest, few people overcome Nessus. We are to take the blueprint that is given and then do what we want with it. You example above is only if a woman has Dejanira conjunct a mans ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim. Any feedback on the roles being reversed? If it has not of yet, it may be a new relationship. As you know, or can find from my directory, Eros and Psyche are my favorite asteroids. Eros in a synastry chart. My Dejanira is square his venus (-0a) and conjunct his vertex (0s). However, it's recommended to do an individual birthchart analysis before analyzing the Synastry to see the personal needs and potential for maintaining a healthy relationship. I think theres a trine or sextile to other asteroids but nothing major. I've found that the Eros person has a "crush" on the planet person. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. This question would need me to see the whole chart because what I do is put it all together and come out with a practical answer. If one does not see any abuse when this happens, my opinion would be that they dont know the person enough lol. 3 degrees is wide but this is one of the hardest aspects in the whole chart, so please be vigilant, as I know you will be! If an asteroid is conjunct an angle or a planet, placed in a prominent position, or stands out because of some other reason, it can provide an additional layer of insight in chart analysis. I write the truth not to placate people but because the truth is the only thing that heals. Sun sextile/trine/conjunct Moon is often found in marriage synastry charts. Does it matter if he doesnt have pluto in aspect to my venus (mine is 19 Libra)? Also, our vertexes are conjunct in the same degree. I am very genuine towards others and fairness is must priority in all circumstances including my own critic.hate violence and abuse and stand up against it. My Sun and Mercury sandwich this conjunction by four and three degrees. What does Nessus and Dejanira mean when conjuncting each other? I am new on this and finding all this information was revealing, so now I will stick to questions about my dejanira and nesuus. I think you are insightful, do not get me wrong, but being fatalistic is not the truth, and me saying that being fatalistic is wrong to do and is detrimental to people that dont know how complex astrology is, does not mean that I am not accepting the truth. Nonetheless, your interpretation of dejanira and nessus is intriguing. Then my Nessus is 29 Cancer in almost exact opposition with the child asteroid at 28 Cap. I do Astrology the way that I would want to learn it. It is really rocking my world right now <3. How fortunate we are to have such a wonderful body of info to help us! Also, I discovered that my daughter has Dejanira conjunct her 2H Virgo Moon(3 deg. They have a very strong sense of "us against the world," and they will fight to protect the boundaries of their relationship at all costs. Our composite moon is at 26 Virgo and pluto at 0 libra. Also, there is no abuse either way. It seems like sexual abuse is an emotional theme that I am working with in this life. Yeah, the They may not be able to see what you are up and you could use this for your gain fits perfectly. They have lots of soulmate connections in the charts and both make really strong NN conjunctions and squares in synastry. Maybe, the good aspects just out weight this one. This is a difficult aspect, but the couple often meets in this life to try and heal the wound. Is this something that reliably and consistently is reflected in a variety of different charts? Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. I was shocked to see it in this couples charts. xxx, This may make Nessus and what it means i.e abuse, something that is a deep subject with you and on one which you contemplate. I would have to see the rest of the chart to tell more though, my Friend. Im pluto and he is the moon. . Sorry for the late reply. Lets see. <3, Hi AmiAnn, do you have any thoughts on this? Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 I seemed to be destined to study and use Nessus and Deja. as well as to the signs and houses. We enter the month of February, with lust, love and passion. The relationship seems to end in a certain way, too. I was sexually abused in my home by a family member. Karmic astrology synastry is suddenlyreally interesting when you want to look at your own relationship. I could not really answer this question without seeing the whole chart. Groom conjunct the Vertex. I use the term female, but it would be the same for either sex. I don't need anything from you, except to serve you. 4. Hi Ami, Ive been quietly enjoying your site for years now and am finally reaching out as Im intrigued by your work on nessus/deja and recently entered into a relationship with someone (not romantic) who I discovered has nessus and mars conj my nn exact. I dont even have tattoos or my ears pierced. Chiron conj the Sun is not sexy. Moon/Pluto does not have to be dark sexual but if any planetary aspect would be, it would be this. Can it be dangerous amiann? I can relate to everything Ive read from you. If the man is the Dejanira, he would be the victim. This relationship can be really passionate, fiery, and exciting. What significance would you place on someones Juno conjunct my vertex, south node as well as very-widely conjunct my sun (same sign). Do you think I need to worry about the Nessus/BML conjunction or about abusing the poor wounded birds I keep looking for? Sometimes I nurture sometimes he does. What about mars, Saturn and Jupiter in Virgo? my sun in exact opposition to his pluto (I have this aspect in the natal chart) and my pluto in conjunction with his sun in an orb of 7 even far he can feel it? Before I leave this subject, I will add my theory. IF the chart does not seem right, then I think the time of birth is off. The Fortuna would, likely, bring good fortune to the vertex person, likely in the arena of money. And thank you for this article, I should have said that before. Yes very passionate.50shades of grey is just childplay. His Pluto sextile my moon, His Jupiter conjunct my moon and his Neptune conjunct my moon, also his mars opposite my venus, is that conducive to passion and helping me release my cancer 8th house sun conjunct north node repressesion? thanks, M. Super passion unlike few else. BUT my dejanira is conjunct with his sun by one degree and my dejanira is also in the same degree as my AC What does that mean? The asteroid Eros plays a role in sexual attraction as well. We also had a Juno Vertex conjunction. I am for the stark, bare truth cuz that is what heals. Ami, Christian Psychic Readings & Astrology Charts for All Faiths. The wonderful thing about this aspect, especially with the conjunction is that love is brought into the lives of both, even if . Amazing emotional+sexual chemistry though there was some bumps in the way. Does that fit and I applaud your willingness to face yourself. I think the Nessus/Deja relationship in synastry is a re-play of childhood abuse. Thank you, amiann. It takes me several hours so I could not do it here. Yes, astrology charts do show the truth of ones life, but the issue is that YOUR opinions do not equate the truth. Is there a positive aspect to this connection? When/if that turns bad, it could become dark. I am not mad, I am correcting you for instilling fear in people with your claim to truth. Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. Thank you Ariel! Eros represents our passionate and erotic energy and how we use it. My venus is conjunct someone's eros right now. The flip side is that when it ends( and it usually does) you could go to jail for homicide. His Nessus conjunct her midheaven. what do you think about a double-wammy moon sextile pluto and pluto square moon in sinastry? It sounds really bad I guess, but this person has given me so much positivity and encouragement and I feel has set me on a positive path. We have our arguments and I sometimes feel put down by him (and, to be fair, he feels the same way about me) and sometimes my self-esteem suffers. The exception would be the person who overcame it through God. I have this kinky fantasy specifically for him putting a really big needle into me as part of a medical procedure but this isnt my kink or fetish. It's been suggested that an understanding of someone's natal Eros gives you the keys to unlock their erotic desires. I am so intrigued!!! Pluto conjunct Sun synastry indicates a powerful and transformative relationship. Hi, anyone can tell me more about a double whammy Pluto-Venus? I also have moon trine neptune, venus conjunction chiron snd more aspects to do with empathy. They may not be able to see what you are up to and you could use this for your gain. How do you relate to all the men who have their Pluto there? He may abuse her and it would be seen publicly. Eros in synastry Tell me, what is it like? Do you know what these aspects could mean? I meant in synastry her saturn conjuct his deja 1 degree, Thats ok. Aww She may ride his case for being a victim like say, get over it etc etc, Pingback: Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5 | Signing. It is not good to have a base level view on what will happen with one isolated aspect. I am Sag with rising capricorn and he is Capricorn w/rising Sag. As such, Nessus seems out to be the abuser and Deja the victim. Im trying really, really hard not to jump to conclusions, so any help or advice you could give would be very much appreciated. I am sorry! what would result from this? We need to look at the whole chart to see the whole story. Its completely okay to stand by what you wrote. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Try to post the charts so see a visual! It creates a synastry energy where all the houses for the whole chart are conjunct to their opposite house in the partner's chart. He may have little sympathy for her weakness. This is another clear-cut past life astrology marriage aspect, although it isnt as heavy. Coming from a standpoint of being an archaeologist, we can interpret and theorize things ourselves all we want, but an archaeologist telling a crowd of people that their own interpretation of the past is the TRUTH would not only be incredibly wrong, but it would also be detrimental to people that no nothing about interpreting and analyzing archaeological sites, therefore they would take that persons word even though it is not truth. Venus mars aspects It is real to be neutral. Squares and oppositions between Saturn and Juno can speak to a difficult relationship in the past, and theres some potential for this difficulty to be repeated unless both people are committed to working through their issues and working on the relationship. would you please shed some light as you see fit? Good afternoon, thank you for this article I have moon opposition pluto. Wow. What would you say about moon conjunct pluto in a composite chart. Nessus conj the NN in the natal would be a person who would likely be abusive. All of astrology is neutral. I have not seen it fail in all of my chart work. and DW : womans Nessus (13 Gemini) opposite mans Juno ( 12 Sag). This is not a dark aspect, either. 2) I just started going out with a guy, we have good chemistry and just checked our natal charts and see we share amazing aspects except for my dejanira. In some past life, at some point, weve been married to almost everyone weve dated or had some type of relationship with. If a mans Nessus conjuncts, your Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars or North Node, he will abuse you, in my opinion. I would need to see more, Jenn! Thats weird. It needs to be 3 degrees, tops, so no worries there! Now, we come to things that could really make the relationship dark. Thank you =). Nessus conj the NN in synastry would make me RUN and fast lol. Knowing more. But I did find out that her Amor conjuncts their Dejanira-Nessus conjunction, so her Dejanira is conjunct her Amor. Making people fear being in relationships over tiny aspects that do not have an incredibly high chance of playing out is not healing to others. About YOU being the Nessus with your b/f. Is this you? The chart never lies, my Friend. The ex that abused me while I was pregnant had his Nessus conjunct my MC. Both of them are loaded with sexual power, so their interaction is often explosive. Lilith-Mars Aspects in Synastry (conjunction, sextile, trine, opposition, square) Lilith-Mars aspects are all about clash of desires. It can be done but it is rare that someone reaches that level of spiritual mastery. What does that mean? Synastry: Sun square Pluto, sun conjunct Amor, sun conjunct psyche, Pluto conjunct moon, Venus square Pluto, (they have Venus square Pluto)natal also, mars sextile Venus, Mars conjunct Sappho and trine Uranus (they have mars square Uranus natal mars) tine Jupiter, Venus conjunct Neptune and sun conjunct Venus and Eros square Pluto, Eros conjunct kaali, Venus conjunct kaali all opposite Nessus!! Most karmic astrology synastry reports dont take Chiron into account nearly enough. Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. I hope I can do this when I tell you about my own life. You say that you want a nuclear passionate relationship. When Lilith and Mars team up in synastry, there's nothing they can't do. The issue is telling people that are in healthy relationships or people that are around a couple in a healthy relationship, that those aspects will certainly play out no matter what. If you want to ask me a simpler question, I am game! Yes, it would. Thanks SO much for your kind words. This aspect almost certainly speaks to karma from a past life marriage. I generally cannot stand them, and their tendency to be arogant and conceited towards anyone who doesnt think the way they do does come across as downright abusive to me. When you say one which you contemplate, do you mean that the person is aware of the abuse tendency and tries to deal with it? Thank You so much for this info. Did you know I had one? This transit is positive as well as painful, destructive and revelatory. We do not have enough information on every aspect, and never will because again, no interpretation is set in stone to be able to tell someone that something is most certainly going to happen. Lilith on the ic is one of the more potent lilith synastry to have even in the composite. When someone's planet touches our natal Eros in synastry, it is as if we have been stuck by Cupid's arrow. In mythology, Eros was the god of sexual love and desire. Thanks for your help Amiann. The chart shows the TRUTH. They play out to have a certain pattern to the relationship. You made my day, Juice and Welcome! More about Synastry (relationship Astrology) Intermediate and advanced students of Astrology might enjoy our article, SoulMate . I never heard of these asteroids, especially being linked to abusers and victims. With the Lilith conjunct sun, the Sun person is seduced by the other Lilith person. Composite: moon conjunct Neptune, Venus square Pluto, Black moon lilth conjunct Pluto square mars conjunct ceres..any explanations on this type of relationship would be very helpful!!?? This would take a whole chart reading. It wasn't enough for me to have sex with him though. in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. I have seen it in a few people, only. What about this aspects? Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. my mars is there too though, trining his Scorpio pluto 0.25 we have physical heat but plenty of fighting. . Lilith, both Black Moon and Asteroid 1181, brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger, rejection and rage. Thank you so much, Love. And how would his Saturn conjunct her dejanira play out? There are many past life synastry charts that dont show marriage through these 5 obvious aspects, but its clear from reading the whole chart that the pair had a significant relationship in a past life. Thats fatalistic and leaves the image that the entire rest of the charts and people themselves are completely victim to two asteroids that are being portrayed as always playing out when they really do not always do so. M. What are the exact Sun/pluto aspects Maria? Posts: 9778 From: Death Star . If they are conjunct in synastry, a soul mate connection is indicated. Can my Fortuna have some healing effect? I dont think you can draw the concrete conclusion you did from these aspects. I had waaaaay more rage than he did (granted, there were reasons for that) and said things so hurtful that I wince now when I think about them. I've never had a more natural and effortless sexual connection to someone in my life, and it blinded me to a lot of things. This is not dark sexual, per se. I am sorry. You truly made my day! Your words mean a lot to me! The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry. Thank you for your reply. The opposition would be the same but not as locked in or as intense. I guess I was just worried in general, just in case :P. how about deja conjuct saturn 1 degree. His dejanira is conjunct with my sun. That can be justified through basic psychology, I think. The chart is complex and one has to look at the entire chart to draw very global conclusions. What is your opinion on . This is based on experience and charts, as are all my theories. Isis Conjunct the Vertex. I often see this aspect in the charts of couples who have been married for many years. And when you really think about it this line of thought deserve to be abused is quite sociopathic in nature. Do we exile her from consciousness or build her a sanctuary for potent, creative expression? under what theme of the forum? If you want to ask about 2 aspects, I will try to answer but an answer on the whole relationship needs an entire chart reading. His Amor is in trine and sextile to a few of her inner planets. We are not discussing potential long-term compatibility between the sexes, not the love match-rather, signs of initial sexual attraction and knee-jerk reactions between two people. But I always have the feeling that people want to abuse/fool me in one way or another and they get surprised when I respond, I constantly need to stand up for myself in any sort of situation, from the cashier in the shop to colleagues at work. The fear can totally destroy someone over something that they read as if its fact. The conjunction is especially strong, but the trine, square, and opposition can also indicate a past life connection or marriage. Does nessus still be working as a tendency to abuse? Next, I have uncovered that in my Draconic Dejanira is 1 degree conjunct my natal Scorpio Moon. I am honored to have you as a valued member of my website family , Ivs, why dont you come put your chart in my Personal Readings Forum. (double-whammy..) And my pluto trine his sun and venus..xxx, Mars sq Pluto can be violence and/or violent/strong passions. Please post the charts. I dont mean to, but I think I find issues/hurts of my friends and partners and end up trying to mother them if thats what you meant. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 Wow, Pluto conj the DSC may be looking for partners who have strong primal power and you may not have accessed your own. Is it relevant? I also found out that my Nessus is 1 degree conjunct my current boyfriends Sun(Cancer). I bet that the son was still the abuser though, even if he was the victim, as a child. In Roman mythology, Eros was known as Cupid. There is the potential to take things to another realm when the aspects are favorable. There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. Also, I try to be very direct to counter the tendency in many Astrologer not to take a stand. so what would it be? My Nessus square his Venus My first husband was abusive His Nessus conjunct my Descendant Eros wants intense encounters that lead to lasting transformation. Lilith and Ceres conjunct in the synastry chart Your rebellious free spirit and nurturing sides are enmeshed. The Saturn person may kind of ride the back of the Mars person. Same natal chart of a man who is 41-42 years old. Youll have to use your judgement here. Do you see what I mean. His Dejanira is in 25 Scorpio, conjunct my Part of Fortune in 27 Scorpio, opposite my Moon in 29 Taurus and Mars and Jupiter, in 0 Gemini.

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